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All over the Internet there are discussions going on about Female Ejaculation. Forums, chat rooms and discussion boards are buzzing with people trying to get to the truth about the elusive squirting ejaculation.
As a woman who has been experiencing squirting orgasms for many years and has also been teaching men and women about the joys of female ejaculation, I find it laughable that in 2007 there is still doubt in many peoples minds as to the authenticity of squirting.
Female Ejaculation is not a myth; it is something that every single woman has the ability to do. All it requires is the right technique, the more advanced of which are discussed in my guide "Female Ejaculation: Learn How To Squirt In 10 Easy Steps"
Amongst the women that I talk to about squirting, the top reasons for failure usually emerge as, patience, time, communication and understanding. Lets look at these one by one.
1. Gentlemen! If you want your partner to experience pleasure unparalleled, you cannot expect to manage that during a five minute commercial break on fight night. Rushing because you want to get back to the TV just gets everyone frustrated. There must be adequate time allotted for intimacy.
2. Patience! Guys; women have sex not only with their bodies but with their minds as well, so if her mind is not at ease because you are getting impatient with her, she will become anxious and tense and nothing good can come of it. Exercise some patience it will be worth it.
3. Communication! Would you try to drive from one end of the country to the other without using road signs or a map? Probably not. So if you have no idea where the female G-spot may be located why are digging around without asking for directions. Communication is the key, if your partner tells you, you are not on the right path, don't get offended, listen and learn. It will benefit you both.
4. Time! Not every woman will become sexually aroused just because you strip off down to your cotton socks. Mental stimulation remember? Some women require a lot more time to get into the mood. Take time to know what stimulates your partner. Talk to her, undress her, caress her, and arouse her. But what ever you do, do not go for manual G-spot stimulation UNTIL she is turned on. Trying to place your fingers into the vagina of a woman that is not aroused is very painful and off-putting.
5. Understanding! Guys, if it does not happen the first time, so what. You should still have enjoyed being intimate with your partner. Don't make squirting the most important part of your sex life. If you make your partner feel that you are disappointed or in some cases I've dealt with, disgusted that she did not squirt, you will be potentially ruining any sex you have in the future, because at the back of your partners mind she will be thinking about how you behaved or what you said that last time your tried and it did not happen.
Female ejaculation requires a combination of techniques, but the most important thing to remember is that sex is supposed to be pleasurable, so relax, enjoy, let go and let flow.
About the Author
Erica.J.Miles has been educating people about Female Ejaculation for over 3 years. Get all your questions about female ejaculation answered with the eBook "Female Ejaculation: Learn How 2 Squirt In 10 Easy Steps" This great guide teaches both men and woman how to experience the joys of squirting orgasms. Visit http://www.DiscoverFemaleEjaculationNow.com
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