Best Sex Positions - Part I
Best Sex Positions. There are probably as many different names to call the various contortions we get into when we making love as there are sexual positions. And it doesn't matter if you call it boinking, 'doing it,' or even making 'the beast with two backs' (That's what Shakespeare called it.)
Sex is fun...and the more sex positions you have in the repertoire, the more fun you'll have. Birds do it. Bees do it. And chances are YOU do it...but do you do it well? George Michael sings that "Sex is natural, sex is fun,' and although that's certainly true, sex positions are something you can LEARN and become the best at.
This article will give you lots of facts and ideas to make your time in the bedroom (or wherever you decide to try out these sexual positions) everything you and your partner want it to be.
Here are some ideas to get you going...
ASSUME THE (MISSIONARY) POSITION
A lot of couples like to experiment with a 'new' sexual position, but that can get old really fast. Here's a news flash: Missionary style may be the best! The person on top has a lot of control over the degree of stimulation that they get and the person on bottom can easily increase their sexual pleasure by masturbating.
And, the face-to-face sex position allows you to use techniques to create more satisfying experience: eye-to-eye contact, guiding your partners hip movements with your hands, massaging your partner's neck/back, and nibbling the other person's ears, necks or lips.
INSIDE OUT
In this sex position, the person on bottom and the person on top switch leg positions. The person on bottom closes his/her legs and the person on top straddles the legs of the person on bottom. The benefit to this sex position: additional genital stimulation for the person on top; and for the person on bottom, delicious friction on the inner thighs.
WEIGHTLESS SEAT
Sit on the edge of a chair. Have your partner (preferably wearing high heels) straddle you and put her hands on the back of the chair. By thrusting her hips and bending and straightening her knees, she can get some of the best action going. This position makes for great foreplay. You'll be in an excellent position to explore your partner's genitals with your eyes, hands or mouth.
If your choice in sexual positions includes a chair, great choices include rocking chairs, kitchen table chairs and, of course, the chair in the office. (Consider chair sex next time you need a study break ...just not at the library!)
HEAD TO TOE
In this sexual position, you and your partner will face the opposite direction from each other and end up with a view of the other person's feet. To make this work, the person on bottom will need to arch her/his pelvic area (back flat against the ground) and I strongly suggest that the woman help guide your penis into the correct position.
And, while you're in the toe-zone, remember that sucking the little biggies and massaging the insoles adds extra stimulation - toe-riffic!
The Best Sex Positions To Be In...
The best sex positions all have one thing in common: both partners are relaxedWe've already said it - sex is natural; sex is fun. Sex is best when you're not under the gun! Experimenting with new (or old) sexual positions - should feel like pleasure, not pressure. No one's keeping score - really! If a sex position doesn't feel right for you or your partner, why stick with a loser? There are plenty of winners to choose from
So we invite you to read these tips and select the best ones that appeal to you and your partner.
About the Author
HJ Debs writes articles on the best sexual health topics for men and woman to help improve their sexuality and the quality of their sexual experiences
